The drink at six is often a decision you never made. You walk in, the fridge is there, and the can is open before you've thought about it. The plan moves the decision to earlier in the day, when you're not standing in the kitchen.
Plans in the form "if this happens, I do that" are one of the best-tested tools for doing what you meant to. Across nearly a hundred studies, people who made them followed through more often than people with the same goal and no plan. Evidence: solid More on that in the if-then plan. For cutting down drinking in general, the results have been mixed, and I haven't seen it tested on the after-work drink itself. Evidence: worth trying
Make the cue something that always happens: walking in the door, sitting down to eat, finishing the first one. Make the action small enough to do when you're tired.
If the honest reason for the drink is to switch off a low mood, not the day, that's a conversation with a doctor. A plan won't fix that.
If you drink heavily every day, don't stop suddenly. Talk to a doctor first. Coming off alcohol all at once can cause seizures. Evidence: solid
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Drinking
Count it as you pour it
Each time you open or pour a drink, add a line to a note on your phone with the time. Read the note the next morning.
no timeEvidence: worth trying
Drinking
Pick the drink-free days before the week starts
On Sunday, choose the days this week you won't drink and put them in the calendar. Then Wednesday at six isn't a decision.
2 minEvidence: worth trying
Drinking
Take the three-question check
Search for AUDIT-C and answer the three questions for an ordinary week, not your best one. Or ask your doctor to go through it with you.
2 minEvidence: solid