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Happiness · Holding a good moment

Revisit one good memory a week

Once a week, pick one good moment from the last year. Two minutes back in it. Where you were, who was there, what it sounded like.

2 minEvidence: worth trying

Savouring has an after-the-fact version: going back into a good moment deliberately, instead of waiting for it to surface on its own.

The evidence is the same as for the mental photograph. In a month-long diary study of young adults, savouring was what turned a good event into a better day. Evidence: decent A one-week pilot with older adults, no control group, found gains in the ones who kept it up. Evidence: worth trying Both tested savouring broadly, not this exact two-minute version, and neither on midlife men. Evidence: worth trying

Pick a specific one, not "the holiday". The room, the light, the thing somebody said. Two minutes, then stop, before it turns into a comparison with today.

Weekly, not daily. The point isn't living in the past. It's that a moment you never go back to is one you didn't really keep.

Source: Jose, Lim and Bryant, 2012, Journal of Positive Psychology; Smith and Hanni, 2019, Journal of Applied Gerontology (link)

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